Michael Weisz. Welcome to my website!
You are about to discover the
golden rules of relating correctly with BPD
sufferers, how to get your needs met, and how you
can play a key role in your BPD loved one's healing
process. These are the key "ingredients"
your relationship around.
A couple of yours ago I healed
myself from Borderline Personality after having
had suffered from it for nine years. I am
specialized in Clinical Psychology, I work in my own psychology practice and since 2011 I have
helped dozens of Non-BPD people from all around
the world to turn their relationships around. Also my ebook "End The Borderline Chaos"
has been downloaded by Non-BPDs from over twenty
Working with my Non-BPD clients I
discovered something very interesting, surprising,
and totally unexpected. Something that keeps the
relationship on a negative, destructive path.
On one hand there is the BPD
person with all his or her emotions, reactions, and
intrigues that are probably driving you crazy. The
BPD sufferer plays a big part in the problems you are having
today, no questions about it!
On the other hand however, there is
the Non-BPD who accidentally perpetuates and
amplifies the conflicts and "crazyness" of the
relationship, in spite of their best intentions.
The fact of the matter is that
one can dial conflict and tension down in a
relationship REGARDLESS (!!) how "crazy" and
irrational the other person is.
IN FACT, the same relationship
principles will dial up OR down the tension and the conflict
in YOUR relationship DEPENDING on WHAT YOU DO, WHAT
YOU SAY, AND HOW YOU REACT IN KEY MOMENTS!
Have you heard the saying "If
you want to change others, first you need to change
With BPD sufferers the changing process may
go a bit slower, however
the above principle STILL APPLIES to ALL
ALSO, even MORE IMPORTANTLY, once
you have changed yourself by using these principles,
you are going to be way less affected by the painful
things that your BPD dear one says or does.
Don't get me wrong. I am not
saying that your BPD dear person should not work on
themselves. NOT AT ALL!
What I do say however is that
you learning what I teach here it will help you reduce
your distress to a minimum. This in turn is going to make it easier for the BPD to
change too! To be specific, building and
strengthening your personality, self-esteem, and
confidence will have all the positive effects on YOUR
emotional WELL BEING as well as on THE RELATIONSHIP!
Do you think that if you stop
taking things personally will help you feel better?
Do you think that by feeling better you will have a positive influence on your BPD dear one and
make him or her
change WITHOUT forcing or pushing them?
Of course they do!
Everything that you are about to learn
here is based on scientifically proved principles on:
- How the human mind and
- How human relationships and
- What is the BEST way to
induce your BPD dear one to change WITHOUT using
any kind of pressure.
When you want to solve
a problem, but the solution keeps you running into it
over and over again, you need to take on a new approach, don't
My solution works because it is
based on science and I have refined and perfected it
based on experience.
Here on this website you are going
- How to get inside your BPD
loved one's mind and understand their thoughts,
emotions, and reactions;
- How BPD behaviors and
reactions are affecting YOU and why;
- How to become IMMUNE to
emotional manipulation, blackmail, reasonless
accusations, blaming, unexpected mood changes,
push and pull, and a chaotic relationship;
- Exactly what to DO and what
to SAY in each of those situations;
- How to overcome YOUR anxiety,
depression, desperation, hopelessness, and
dependency WITHOUT destroying the relationship;
- How to grow your confidence, self-esteem,
and emotional balance to stay calm and
composed during those edgy moments;
- How to make the BPD person
WANT to change by speaking their "language";
- How to tell them that they
have Borderline Personality in a way that makes
them want to go to counseling;
- ...And a lot more!
Visit the various sections of this
website, educate yourself about the Non-BPD - BPD
relationships, and start doing things differently!
You should start seeing AND feeling changes almost
If you have questions feel free to contact me!
I am here to help.